There is no doubt parents are concerned about the people with whom their son associates throughout his life. In college, when their son is "on his own,"---many times for the first time---fathers and mothers are apprehensive of "letting go."

When their son shows interest in fraternities, many parents, especially those who did not have the opportunity of or participate in this facet of college life, are bewildered about these organizations.

Negative publicity stereotypes all Greek-letter organizations. The publicized actions of a few members of fraternities on a few campuses throughout the country worries many parents, for they feel these offensive practices are widespread. The degrading activities and traditions of fraternities which are reported in newspapers and magazines cause many to believe that these practices take place in every chapter of every fraternity.

On the contrary, these isolated, offensive activities are as rare as those reported in other facets of daily life. In fact, statistics prove that thousands of chapters of fraternities (and sororities) flourish at colleges and universities in the United States and Canada; this fact alone should assure any concerned, thoughtful parent that the publicized actions of a handful do not, and should not, reflect on the others. It is doubtful that there would be a college fraternity or sorority existing today if the offensive practices many think occur actually did occur! What is not normally publicized is the fact that those chapters who have committed these acts have been punished by their universities and by their national organizations by being placed on probation or by having their charters revoked.

The positive aspects of a fraternity. What is important to know is that fraternities have existed for over two hundred years, that (1) they are composed of men, like your son, who are experiencing a most critical time in their lives, (2) fraternities are presided over by professionals, (3) the vast majority of chapters run on a sound financial basis, (4) the friendships your son makes while being an active member last a lifetime, (5) your son is learning leadership qualities, (6) the principles taught by fraternities are designed to make him a better man, and (7) currently, fraternities are stronger than ever. The years living in a fraternity atmosphere certainly benefit most individuals; at least this is true in Sigma Chi.

As members of Sigma Chi, we value the family relationships of all of our brothers, and include parents in many of our activities.

Each year we have several events specifically for parents. On Mom’s Day, we usually take our mothers out to dinner or some other function. On Dad’s Day, we usually do some activity with our fathers such as golf and barbeque. On Family Weekend, we invite all of our brothers’ families to enjoy a day of food, fun, and entertainment.

In addition to scheduled events, we are always excited to see one of our brother’s parents or family members stop by and visit at school.

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Frequently Asked Questions by Parents

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